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Mastering the Essentials of Positive Parenting:

A Practical Blueprint for Raising Muslim Children with TLC [Time + Limits + Connection]

This comprehensive program especially designed for Muslim parents will support you in becoming confident parents, connect with your children and effectively deal with the challenges of modern society, while taking care of yourself and maintaining your sanity!


Before I tell you about the program, let’s make sure you are a good fit. You are right for Mastering the Essentials of Positive Parenting, if you want to connect with your children and have a strong relationship while setting boundaries and promoting discipline and creating a family that thrives in this century while maintaining your faith values.

  • If you are a busy parent who is constantly juggling multiple responsibilities, such as work, household chores, commitments to family and community and of course raising children! Your plate is very full and this leaves you with limited time and energy. This lack of time makes it difficult for you to step back, and figure out what is really important and what you can let go of.
  • While you work at making sure that your children succeed in academics and excel at worldly affairs, you want to ensure that your children are raised with strong faith and values. You worry about instilling moral principles and helping your children navigate the challenges of the modern world and stay true to the Deen. You feel a deep responsibility to equip Your children with the necessary life skills to succeed and be resilient in both this world and the hereafter.
  • While you read and listen to a lot of inspiration and advice, you are often overwhelmed by the abundance of information and advice available. You are tired of sifting through generic parenting tips that don't resonate with your specific situation. You crave practical strategies and guidance which is realistic, relevant and tailored to your busy lifestyle.
  • You start each day with the best of intentions but find yourself triggered when your children are not listening to you or doing what they are supposed to. You tend to overreact and then you regret it. You secretly fear that you are damaging your children which makes you even harder on yourself than you already are. You have got self-criticism down to a fine art.
  • You want to be there for your children, no matter what. You want them to turn to you first if they have any problems. And while you believe you are open, you sometimes find that your children are not as communicative as you would like. You find yourself interrogating them and getting one word answers in return.
  • You want to be your child’s best friend. You were brought up by strict parents and do want your children to fear you but rather to turn to you. You find it difficult to set boundaries with your children for fear of losing them or them turning away from you. You find yourself giving in to them. A LOT. When they are doing something which needs correction, you find yourself using punishments that do not work. You come down hard in the moment, later regret it and then give in.
  • You find yourself at odds with your partner on parenting philosophies and struggle to “be on the same page” even though you hear and read that it is very important for parents to be on the same page. You worry that your diverse parenting philosophies and practices are damaging your children and impacting your relationship with your spouse but you find yourself unable to convince your spouse.
  • You worry about the impact of social media and the dominant cultural narrative on your children’s mind and soul. While you do your best to raise them Islamically, you often feel inadequate to speak to them about these issues without lecturing [which does not appear to work] or to answer their concerns adequately. If any of these sound like you, you are in the right place!

Mastering the Essentials of Positive Parenting will give you the inspiration, the tools and the support you need to become confident in your ability to raise your children with love, discipline, faith and life skills so that you can create and enjoy a family that nourishes and a home that is a safe haven for you and for them.


By the end of this program, you will have... 

  • Learnt why working on your wellbeing is the best gift for your family.

    You will discover and practice the three pillars or managing yourself to experience a new found sense of balance, calm and confidence in yourself as a parent. You will learn how to manage challenging moments in your family even if you are triggered.

  • Practical tools to connect with your children in a meaningful way.

    Even in the midst of the fast-paced, technology-driven 21st century, you will learn how you can connect and communicate in meaningful ways. You will know how to engage with your children at different stages of their development to foster a sense of trust, understanding, and open communication.

  • A blueprint to encourage desirable behaviour.

    You will experience shifting from reactive parenting to proactive parenting, focusing your energy on fostering desirable behaviours and habits that you want to instil in your children. You will discover and practice six super effective strategies to foster positive behaviour and habits in your children.

  • Understand and deal with undesirable behaviour.

    You will begin to understand why children behave poorly and how you can prevent such misbehaviour. You will also learn how to move away from using ineffective punishment and embracing instead discipline that teaches and guides your children towards better choices. You will learn to implement boundaries and consequences that work, creating a structured and supportive environment for your children's growth and development.

  • Learnt how to teach life skills, foster emotional resilience and nurture faith and strong values.

    You will have discovered a practical 4-step method to teach your children essential life skills. You will understand why and how to foster independence and responsibility in children. You will have practical tools to nurture their spiritual growth, strengthen their moral compass and foster a strong relationship with faith.

  • Reflected on and discovered your role in preparing your children to face a changing world.

    You will know what works in connecting with the new generation, how to find common ground and how to become an askable parent in their lives so that they continue to talk and consult with you.

  • Discovered how to build a solid parenting partnership.

    You will know what to do when parents disagree, avoid common mistakes in making the situation worse. You will also discover what is even more important than parents being on the same page and how to find and nurture support for yourself as a parent.

"Sr. Mazia has a way of getting straight to the point even in a two minute conversation she adds wisdom that can change your perspective. In one of our casual conversations, she helped me see a different perspective and respond flexibly. The situation turned out much better than I had imagined and that is something I will never forget. I have used her guidance to raise my children and am very grateful that it prevented me from making so many mistakes!"

- M.M

Ready to start? Mastering the Essentials of Positive Parenting will transform your family and it is officially OPEN for enrollment!

 

[BUT NOT FOR LONG . . .]
HERE ARE THE EARLY BIRD PRICES FOR THE ENTIRE PROGRAM 

3 EASY PAYMENTS OF

$125 (USD)

ENROLL + PAY MONTHLY

OR

PAY ALL AT ONCE AND SAVE $78

$297 (USD)

PAY IN FULL + SAVE

I was hesitant to join and not planning to be an active participant and said so in the first session. Sr. Marzia made me feel very accepted and comfortable by sharing her own life stories. And slowly I became more at ease with her and the other participants. I felt grounded after our sessions and was left with hope afterwards. I feel my mind and heart is more open.

- Anar Rawji

 

She is a fantastic coach who gives you practical tools, backed by extensive research. I have learnt so much and am grateful for having access to her classes.

- Mariam Malik

 

Very helpful! She was very understanding and supportive and helped me to put my worries into perspective. The techniques she suggested really helped me to work through my problems.

- Sadia Khan

 

I really benefitted from a change in perspective on so many things. Rather than fighting our natural instincts and tendencies - learning to accept them and deal with them accordingly was a game changer for me. Thank you Sr Marzia!

- Riffat Sivjee

 

Marzia Hassan workshops are so relevant and practical. I always take away something I can use immediately as her tips are easy to implement. Loved her tips on dealing with teens and will be incorporating her ideas on better family times on the dinner table. I also feel less negative about having conflicts in the first place. I guess practice makes perfect.

- S.R.

 

What’s inside Mastering the Essentials of Positive Parenting?

 

Module 1

Laying the Foundation

We begin by laying the foundation of our journey together. This module will help
you step back, get clear on what you want for your children and what skills they
need to help them succeed in this world and the hereafter.

Module Highlights:

  • Understand why we need to step back and assess where we are doing
    before planning how to get there.
  • Get clear on what life skills your children will need to succeed, be happy
    and resilient.
  • Begin to gain an understanding of your children, what their strengths are
    and how to best nurture these.
  • Get clear on your own parenting style and how it impacts the interaction
    with your children.
Module 2

Principles and Practices

In this module we introduce the 7 principles of positive parenting, we discover
the Islamic parenting contract and understand how it fits in with modern
parenting and we get clear on the process and journey of parenting as it relates
to what we have control over.

Module Highlights:

  • Get clear on what the science of parenting says about what actually works.
  • Discover the 7 principles of positive parenting.
  • Understand the Islamic Parenting Contract – between you and God and
    what is really expected of you as a parent.
  • Learn the difference between principles and practices and why it is
    important to understand the difference between process and outcome.
Module 3

Starting with Ourselves [Principle 1]

In this module, we will understand why it is essential to start with ourselves
when parenting our children, how our well-being impacts our children and the
three pillars of our personal well-being.

Module Highlights:

  • Understand why nobody is happy when mama and papa are not happy.
  • Get clear on the difference between being responsible for our children and being
    responsible to our children and why this makes all the difference.
  • Learn a process of reflection on your own upbringing and how to stop the
    mistakes your parents made from impacting your parenting practices.
  • Discover and practice a 5 step plan for in the moment self-management
    when you are triggered or upset.
  • Learn how to make amends, forgive yourself, and keep moving forward
    when you fall short of your own intentions.
Module 4

Connecting with Our Children [Principle 2]

In this module, we cover the principle of connecting with our children to build
strong bonds of trust and respect which can weather challenges along the way.

Module Highlights:

  • Understand the human need for attention and connection and what
    happens when it is not met.
  • Learn the basics of attachment theory and why you need to understand it
    to parent better.
  • Explore the challenges of connection in the 21st century and understand the need to be intentional about connection.
  • Discover and practice practical ways to connect to our children through the
    ages and stages of their lives.
Module 5

Fostering Desirable Behaviour [Principle 3]

We will now become specific and intentional about the behaviours that we
want to encourage and nurture in our children and learn how to grow good
habits.

Module Highlights:

  • Understand how reactive parenting does not work and how to become
    more proactive.
  • Get clear on what habits and behaviours you want to encourage.
  • Discover and practice 6 super effective ways to foster desirable behaviour.
  • Learn to troubleshoot when your strategies are not working.
Module 6

Managing Undesirable Behaviour [Principle 4]

As parents we are concerned about undesirable behaviour and this module we
will assess effective and ineffective ways to deal with poor behaviour and
practice implementing boundaries and consequences that actually work.

Module Highlights:

  • Change your perspective on misbehaviour and understand why children act out.
  • Understand why your current ways of dealing with misbehaviour are not
    working.
  • Understand the difference between punishment and discipline.
  • Discover and practice the framework for RAISING children with discipline.
  • Practice implementing consequences that work.
Module 7

Proactively Model, Nurture and Teach [Principle 5]

As parents we are always trying to teach children values, life skills and
responsibilities. Usually we have only one tool to do this: lecturing [which results
in children zoning out]. In this module, we will build our skills to teach and foster
these important concepts using a variety of means so that children pay attention
and actually imbibe the lessons we are trying to convey.

Module Highlights:

  • Learn to teach life skills and independence using a simple four step method.
  • Practice having conversations about values, faith and spirituality.
  • Nurture emotional intelligence and resilience in children, giving them the
    keys to make themselves happy
Module 8

Bravely Navigate a Fast-Changing World [Principle 6]

As parents, we need to prepare our children for a vastly different world that we
grew up in and the challenges our children face to their value system, morality
and beliefs is very real. In this module, we will cover what we can do as parents
to foster moral intelligence in our children and encourage their ability to stand
firm again peer pressure.

Module Highlights:

  • Learn what works [and what does not] in nurturing moral intelligence of
    children.
  • Practice having conversations that inoculate children against toxic values and environment.
  • Prepare children and teach them skills to deal with peer pressure.
Module 9

Parent as a Team and Build a Community of Support

All of us need support as we navigate the everyday challenges and big issues of raising good human beings. In this module we will find out how to build strong
parenting partnerships and teams and find a wider circle of like-minded people
to support us in our journey.

Module Highlights:

  • Learn how to navigate situations when you and your spouse and/or family
    are not on the same page.
  • Build a strong parenting partnership with spouses and extended family.
  • Connect to a wider circle of support for yourself to provide encourage and
    empathy.
Module 10

Wrap Up and Next Steps

As we wrap up the course, we will talk about our key takeaways and about
keeping hope alive even in challenging situations.

Plus these bonuses to help support you through the program to gain confidence
in your parenting, connect with your children and raise them to be good humans

  • $127 value - 3 bonus live Q&As through the program to help you trouble shoot any challenges in understanding or implementing the course material.
  • $97 value - 10 weeks of support and encouragement in the private Facebook community as you learn and practice.
  • $197 value - An audio course just for mothers: Mothering from the inside out: Letting go of perfection and embracing your strengths [to be released in 2024].
  • $81 - 3 months of membership in the TLC community.

That is over $500 in bonuses included if you sign up today!

So, let us recap what you will be getting inside the Mastering the Essentials of Positive Parenting Program when you sign up today:

 

  • 10 Modules of Course Material [valued at $500]
    Showing you the exact blueprint and road map to support you in your parenting
    journey no matter what stage you are at.
  • Downloadable audio and transcripts for each module [valued at $100]
    Each module has a video, audio and transcript so that you can learn according to your preferences and on the go if you prefer.
  • Key takeaways and practices cheat sheet from each module [valued at $100]
    Some of us like to read the summary either before or after we learn a concept and take notes. Well, I have already done the hard work so that you don’t have to. You will have a handy guide each week of what to focus on for that week.
  • 3 Live Q&A Sessions [valued at $127]
    To trouble shoot any practice you are having challenges with. These are also a
    chance for you to get live coaching from me.
  • A downloadable workbook [valued at $37]
    With lots of reflection prompts and exercises to dive deeper into the material
  • Mothering from the Inside out audio course to be released early 2024 [valued at $197]
  • 3 bonus live Q&As through the program to help you trouble shoot any challenges in understanding or implementing the course material [$127 value]
  • 3 months of membership in the TLC community [valued at $81]

That is over $1,200 in value!

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Plus you will be backed by a Risk Free 14 day Guarantee

If you are like me, you are willing to invest in high quality support for yourself and your family but are cautious of outrageous claims of transformation.

I totally understand.

I would not want to spend my hard earned money on stuff that is simply not
relevant to you or your situation.

And this is why I offer a 14 day Risk free guarantee.

Consume the first two modules, try out the concepts, apply the practices. If nothing changes in your family or you decide this is not for you, I will happily refund your money [and you can keep the workbook as my gift for trying out the
program!]

FAQs Burning questions parents like you ask before signing up: 

  • My day to day life is so busy, I am worried I will not have the time to complete all the content.

  • My situation is so challenging. I am not sure these concepts will work for me.

  • Do I get one on one support from you?

  • What if I try the course and decide it is not for me?

  • Do I have to share my problems with a group?

  • What if my spouse is not board? Can I do this on my own? Will it make a
    difference?

  • Both my spouse and I want to participate. Do we have to sign up separately?

  • Can I share the material with others?

  • Do I get the full course at once?

  • My children are already in their teens – will this material help?

If you are thinking, this sounds promising but I am still not 100% sure, keep reading...

You should give Mastering the Essentials of Positive Parenting a RISK-FREE shot if you are motivated by any of the following:

  1. You have been trying to do parenting on your own and it is just not
    working. You feel discouraged and overwhelmed. You start with good
    intentions every day but by end of day are often frustrated and upset with
    yourself or your children. You suspect that there is an easier way if you
    could just figure it out.

  2. You are not afraid of putting in the work. You are already trying very hard
    to manage yourself, connect to your children and raise them well but your
    strategies often backfire. You wish there was a manual for parents of ways that actually worked.
     
  3. At some level, you recognize that there is no perfect time and waiting is not the answer. You suspect that if nothing changes, you will be in the same position next year. Your children are growing and you are beginning to sense that soon your influence over them will become less and less [if it hasn’t already].

I can’t wait for you to join!

So, here is the truth my friend: Parenting Programs and Workshops [including this one] are not magic even if they are based on research and practical ways to support you in your parenting journey.

BUT they are a powerful way to help you step back, see what is working, what is not and how to try things that have worked with thousands of parents and
families like yours.

The truth is that we do not get any medals for doing this challenging work on our own. Having a mentor and guide along the way and a community of support really does make this journey easier.

And it is parents who are willing to step back and reflect on what is not working and try new ways, make mistakes and try again are the parents that manage to maintain their own sanity while creating the kind of family that thrives even though the environment around them appears to be very difficult indeed.

And so my friend, even though you may not feel ready, have some doubts, please ask yourself this: what if things could get better in your home and what if it was not that hard after all. What would that do for you?

There is room for you in this program and I am here to walk alongside you. I cannot wait to meet you, teach you, cheer you on and to witness the transformation that I know if possible for you.

With love and duas,
Marzia

Ready to start? Mastering the Essentials of Positive Parenting will transform your family and it is officially OPEN for enrollment!

 

[BUT NOT FOR LONG . . .]
HERE ARE THE EARLY BIRD PRICES FOR THE ENTIRE PROGRAM 

3 EASY PAYMENTS OF

$125 (USD)

ENROLL + PAY MONTHLY

OR

PAY ALL AT ONCE AND SAVE $78

$297 (USD)

PAY IN FULL + SAVE